One of the harsh truth about Love is, Love is not equal to compatibility. Well, you can fall in love with anyone, with any person. A person who is elder to your, or much younger, a person who screws around your happiness, who suck the blood out of you day in an out. You can fall in love with anyone. Love is an emotional process; compatibility is a logical process.
Love is like a blindfold. You just don't understand the difference where you are ill-treated or you are loved. You need to have faith and self respect for yourself first and not lose it in the name of the love. That's where a toxic relationship starts, where you think everything is fine because you are in love. Don't let love consume you completely that you cannot see what is happening around. When falling in love with anyone is normal, but choices we make after that is what matters. How we choose to handle it.
Love is necessity. Love is amazing. Being in love, falling in love is one of the most beautiful feelings. Having someone by your side always is so peaceful. Following your hobbies, doing what you like, or opting for a career you like is totally normal even when you are in love, you need not to change for a person who is intoxicated and a person who is suffocating you. Love is great. Love is beautiful. But Love is not enough.
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